He's Just Not Your Type (and that's a good thing): How to Find Love Where You Least Expect It
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| Rating | : | 4.82 (568 Votes) |
| Asin | : | 1605296732 |
| Format Type | : | paperback |
| Number of Pages | : | 224 Pages |
| Publish Date | : | 2015-01-25 |
| Language | : | English |
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Andrea Syrtash is a contributor to Oprah, a dating columnist for Yahoo and the host of 'On Dating', produced by NBC Digital Studios. Her dating and relationship advice has been featured on The Today Show, The Huffington Post, USA Today, VH1 and on NPR, among others. She lives with her (non-type) husband in New York City.
Creating a positive attitude about yourself and your dating Syrtash's book, He's Just Not Your Type, is a positive approach to dating that will help you feel more confident about your dating life. There are two very important points she drives home to her readers.1) If you feel unsuccessful about finding mister right at this point in your life, that means you have successfully avoided settling down with mister wrong to become just another divorce statistic. This is a positive!2) But, if you feel negative toward dating, it is time to take positive steps toward your own a. "More Than What You're Thinking" according to Selena Liu. Four pages into this book, I started texting all of my friends who I thought needed to read this as much as I did. To be honest, when I first heard the title, I expected the book to be about settling. There is this natural defensive reaction when we are asked to look beyond our "types." How can we help what we are attracted to? But what I love about Andrea's perspective is that it is the exact OPPOSITE of settling. Her book is so hopeful. It is about actually finding HAPPINESS in dating and marriage. Instead of. "The best advice you'll ever get!" according to Shilom. This really is an eye-opener and crucial to help change your prespective. For years I couldn't understand why I attracted abusers who ultimately cheated when I knew I was seeking good guys. This book really took the blinders off and since reading it I have begun dating the most amazing man who is definitly not my type and I never would have looked twice at him before reading this book. This is nothing against him, he is amazing! Just wasn't my normal type, which is a great thing! He is everything I ever wanted
From Publishers Weekly Tired of trying to figure out if a relationship is right for you? Dating columnist Syrtash serves her solutions with a large dose of encouragement: "The man you are looking for is also looking for you." Though when it comes to substantial suggestions for improving your dating life that don't involve the pursuit of your "NT," or nontype, Syrtash is largely MIA. For instance, when Lahna looked beyond her type she fell in love - with a six-hundred pound man. . Syrtash's formula for change ("Consciousness/Faith/Action") might sound easy, but remember, "When you are with the right match it will not be a thought, but a feeling." The author suggests ignoring what your parents, friends, or colleagues have to say about your love life, encouraging readers to "Date men you
In doing so, she shows women how to make better choices in dating so they are more likely to find true love.. Relationship expert and life coach Andrea Syrtash hears the disbelief in her clients' voices when they admit that their "Mr. Clearly, something's not working. In He's Just Not Your Type, Syrtash challenges readers to date outside their comfort zones and poses hard-hitting questions: What if the kind of man they think will make them happy never will? What would happen if they dated someone they'd never considered dating? In each chapter, Syrtash shares stories of women who have found lasting happiness with their non-types (NTs) and provides exercises designed to help readers assess their big-picture goals and core values. As serial daters, they are attracted to the same type of man time and again. In He's Just Not Your Type (and that's a good thing), a relationship expert and dating columnist shares her counterintuitive approach to lasting love: encouraging women to date their "non-types." After years of dating, many women fall into a relationship rut. Right" relationship has again gone wrong. But the problem is not that he's just not that into themthe reality is, he's just not their type